“Love is divine only and difficult always…” ~ Toni Morrison

Woke up thinking about Toni Morrison’s novel Paradise. This excerpt. Only the brilliant Toni Morrison can put it this way…brilliant because she says it however she wants to say it…

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Let me tell you about love, that silly word you believe is about whether you like somebody or whether somebody likes you or whether you can put up with somebody in order to get something or someplace you want or you believe it has to do with how your body responds to another body like robins or bison or maybe you believe love is how forces or nature or luck is benign to you in particular not maiming or killing you but if so doing it for your own good. Love is none of that. There is nothing in nature like it. Not in robins or bison or in the banging tails of your hunting dogs and not in blossoms or suckling foal. Love is divine only and difficult always. If you think it is easy you are a fool. If you think it is natural you are blind. It is a learned application without reason or motive except that it is God. You do not deserve love regardless of the suffering you have endured. You do not deserve love because somebody did you wrong. You do not deserve love just because you want it. You can only earn – by practice and careful contemplations – the right to express it and you have to learn how to accept it. Which is to say you have to earn God. You have to practice God. You have to think God-carefully. And if you are a good and diligent student you may secure the right to show love. Love is not a gift. It is a diploma. A diploma conferring certain privileges: the privilege of expressing love and the privilege of receiving it. How do you know you have graduated? You don’t. What you do know is that you are human and therefore educable, and therefore capable of learning how to learn, and therefore interesting to God, who is interested only in Himself which is to say He is interested only in love. Do you understand me? God is not interested in you. He is interested in love and the bliss it brings to those who understand and share the interest. Couples that enter the sacrament of marriage and are not prepared to go the distance or are not willing to get right with the real love of God cannot thrive. They may cleave together like robins or gulls or anything else that mates for life. But if they eschew this mighty course, at the moment when all are judged for the disposition of their eternal lives, their cleaving won’t mean a thing.

4 responses to ““Love is divine only and difficult always…” ~ Toni Morrison”

  1. fictional100 says:

    Love is … both unselfconscious and an act of will. A “diploma” (amazing thought) but STILL a gift.Thanks for sharing Toni Morrison’s untrammeled statement. As you go forward, I wish for you, too, to keep saying things however you want to say them, your own untrammeled brilliance.~lucy

  2. Katherine Poythress says:

    This is beauty and heaviness, all of it. Thank you so much for sharing it. You minister to my soul in so many more ways than I think you realize.

  3. Jamie Berry says:

    Yes, and once we do know (some might say remember) it is a choice that we either make or embody (or not), every single time. 😉

  4. Annie Q. Syed says:

    thanks for reading & engaging and adding more food for thought. : ) ~a.